Having a male and two females in bed is considered the most familiar kind of threesome. Then, you may find one girl with two males. Yet, seeing three males or three females together is also as ordinary and familiar. And again, there is always sexual acts involving lesbians or gays a long with straight performers. There are also those people who only feel the need to see or watch their partner having sex with another one.
The Pros and Cons Of Threesomes
Threesomes are considered one stimulating feeling that both sexually active people and bisexual ones can enjoy. Yet, if your woman or man would accept to have a threesome only to make you happy but they are not all that interested, then there would be consequences for this.
Another con of threesomes would be between happily married couples who share care and affection of each other. You may have the intention to make your woman or man happy and sexually satisfied. However, you should know that in relationships where affection creates a great part, threesomes could lead to great trouble. This is due to the fact that your beloved will not take it easy when seeing you making love to another person.
Yet, in case you and your girl or man are having fun together and not really in a serious relationship, then you may consider a threesome as it will just add spice and stimulate you both more. Threesomes can be an exciting idea when avoiding protective partners.
We have tackled and covered all the areas related to any two in a relationship. Yet, we have not handled the issue of the third party, yet.
It is always best to be the third party due to being as far away as possible from marital problems and protective partners as explained before. Furthermore, the third party enjoys a lot of privileges because the other two know that he/she is there to revive the sexual experience.
Also, the third person would feel recognized because he/she believes that the couple has always dreamed of a person like him to share the action with. Hence, in case you seek to be recognized as explained, then being the third party in a threesome is the best place to be.
Another con of threesomes is when the third party is performing a threesome with a couple who do not have a previous experience in that sexual act. What would make it worse is when the female in the couple is not interested in having sex with another girl and yet her male partner would not stop urging her to have something bisexual with the third party. That position would feel awkward to the female acting as the stranger and may cause some trouble as well.
When affection and care are involved in some relationship, that may cause awkwardness during a threesome because it could feel strange seeing your beloved one having sex with a new man or woman. This would definitely make the threesome not so a pleasant situation. Some marriages would go through a hard time right after a threesome is attempted and that makes the third party feel guilty for what happens to the couple.
Bottom Line:
Bottom line is to avoid having a threesome when you are in a love relationship to stay away from any emotional troubles. You can think of any other ways and techniques to revive your sex life with your partner such as dirty talk.
However, if you are not in a serious loving relationship and seeking a threesome but with a very little experience of the matter, do not get concerned or over-stressed because it all comes with the moment.
Remember that you always have the choice to pick one of the threesome performers on which all the sexual acts will be done by you and the third person. That would be the best position for anyone to be. Yet, it is better for everyone to play both roles; the sex subject and the performer so as to give the chance for the other people to share the pleasure.
What is important to remember is to avoid neglecting any other person taking part in the threesome. Some husbands would focus more on the stranger and forget all about the wife. So, try as hard as you can to steer clear of that mistake to keep away from marital trouble afterwards. Now make sure to act as both; a sex subject and an active performer, like we explained before. Furthermore, you should pay attention to the time you take pampering the stranger, and then you should spend as much giving your wife or girlfriend her share of pleasure.
What makes threesomes a great experience is the fact that it allows you to share both the happiness of being performed on and pleasing someone else simultaneously. All in all, threesomes are considered an amazing act that people should think of having every now and then.
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