Why Do Women Want To Change Their Partner

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There are major, significant differences between

men and women. Women and men are looking for

different things in a relationship because they

have different personalities. It is still a

mystery for men what a woman really wants in a

relationship, what she needs to be happy.

Women have an idealistic view of the relationship

and that is why they want the man to change.

Changes occur every day but rarely do they affect

anyone. Therefore, men refuse to do this, they

usually have the concept that if their woman

loves them, they have to accept them as they are.

If not, they had better change their girlfriends.

People in relationships often have strong

expectations that their partner will be exactly

what they want. You will see that if you meet a

girl and you will have a long relationship with

her, after a while she will try to change you.

When you met her, she was perfect in every sense

of the word. However, after a while, she will try

to make you to be like the person from her

fantasy.

People which try to change other people in a

relationship initially try to make the person out

to be something they were not and try to mold

them in the perfect mate. Nevertheless, a perfect

mate does not exist. Trying to change a person is

a sign of strong possession, to have someone so

strongly that you can actually change his or her

behavior.

Change is not always a bad thing to try to induce,

sometimes your partner can just lack certain

social graces; but change should always be a two

way street with a couple, otherwise you just

controlling the other person.

However, women always seem to want to change the

man they are in love with. Even if they know that

men do not change, yet women try anyway. That

happens because most women enter into a

relationship with unrealistic ideas.

There are girls that have strange ideas about

relationships, and they try to change the person

they meet with a person they loved before, but

this always fail. In addition, they do not

understand why men like going out with their

friends to pubs, even if it is a form of

relaxation, especially in weekends, when they

consider that weekend is for the family to spend

time together.

Many times happens that your girlfriend sees you

staring at a beautiful woman whom is passing near

you on the street and she gets angry and asks you

to stop this and change yourself. However, this

happens because women are very jealous and do not

understand that men like to admire the opposite

sex and not necessarily with intention to sleep

with them.

Women should learn to love their partner with all

his faults, this will save them of a lot of

heartache for the long-term of her relationship.

This is the reason there are so many divorces.

All women try to change their man, that is why

rarely hear that a woman is complimenting her man

to her friends. They compete to see who has the

worst man.

Maybe you have a relationship for a long time and

she asks you to change a little bit. You changed

yourself quite a lot, but she still finds out

things that she does not like about you, and

wants to be changed. It is never enough no? What

is next? Usually men cannot change easily, but

some of them change themselves only if they are

motivated to do so.

However, if your love and trust in your

relationship were strong enough, she would not

ask you to change yourself. It takes maturity to

the woman to realize that she will never change

the person who she want to be, so she should

accept him or forget him.

To have success with your relationship you must

accept and respect the differences that are

between you two. Both have issues, but if there

is true love, you will try to complement each

other.

Because of the big differences between men and

women, the most frequent complain men have about

woman is that they always try to change them, and

the one that women have about men is that men

never listen. It is true that women value love,

communication, beauty, and relationships while

men are more interested in objects and things

rather than people and feelings.

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