Tuesday, September 20, 2011

10 Reasons Why SOME eRelationships don Work


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dating, online dating, seduction, relationships, love, marriage, foreign brides, single parents







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You are single, bored and you just have nothing



to do. It is another miserable day like the day



before. You need someone to talk to and you are



turning on the computer, browsing some... dating



sites. There are so many people... singles, like



you are.





What should you ask from them? Can they change



your life for better?





The answer to the last question is up to you.



Would you let a person you have met online to



change your life? Are you willing to do this? Do



you trust someone you have met this way?





SOME people simply do not have the courage to let



an online relationship to develop and change in a



normal healthy relationship. Are you one of them?





Let me re-ensure you that online relationships



really are working, and yes it can change your



entire life, in a good way. :)





But there are some impediments or mistakes which



are leading to the end of the relationship



between two people that could have had a good



future together:





1. First of all if you do not take people you are



taking to too seriously, you will be treated the



same way.





2. Being too secret and reserved. If you do not



tell things about you and you are not working to



develop a relationship, nobody will make this for



you.





3. Trust or lack of trust is the biggest



impediment of an eRelathionship. You have to try



to get the people you are taking to trust in you,



and then find out if that person is a trustworthy



one. There are so many ways to check out this.





4. Being shy. If you are interested in someone



and you want to meet her/him offline, let her/him



know this. What do you have to lose?





5. Fear of disappointment or fear of becoming a



victim of someone with bad intentions can make



you paranoid. It is good to be preventive but not



exaggerate about this. It is not funny and will



pull people away.





6. Unbelieving. If you do not believe that an



eRelathionship can become something more then it



is, you will not pay too much attention and...



You get exactly what you give and some more, don?
t you?





7. Do not make that relationship a priority in



your life. Any human needs to feel that is



important for someone, that is the center of



someone life, even if you have meet that human



online. Don you feel the same? Wouldn't you pay



more attention to someone if you would know that



you are a priority in his/her life?





8. Not making the next step. Talking online can



be fun but it is not enough to get to know a



person better and after a while it can become



boring. Talking on the phone can help you two to



develop the relationship and do not forget that



you can feel chemistry only when you two are



meeting face to face, touching each other,



feeling the smell of her/his perfume.





9. Beeing insincere, pretending that you are



something that you are not will lead you



eventually to the end of any relationship. So be



honest from the very beginning, maybe you have



just meat the mach of your life, don't take the



risk to lose her because of a stupid mistake.





10. Thinking that online dating sites are some



kind of shops where you can find a lover like you



find a pear of shoes, and if you are braking the



shoes you can go back to that shop and buy



another pair just like the first. It is not true,



every human, every soul is unique. If you lose



her/him it is for good. So I am sure that you



will have problems like all couples have but it



is worthy to make the effort to solve these



problems together.





Be happy that the technology gives you the chance



to meet your match online, but do not waste this



chance, it could never come back to you.



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