Well, the first question might be, why would it be any different than making a non herpes woman cum? The answer is for the most part there is no difference. However, a woman with herpes may have emotional blocks regarding herpes, which hold her back from really letting go. I will get into rubbing her G spot the right way in a minute, but first let's cover the emotional aspects.
With herpes, a woman may feel flawed or insecure because she has herpes, and somewhat inhibited and restrained. (of course this can happen with men too.) So it is important to start with some friendly talk, assuring her that she is OK, and that you care about her, and that you get pleasure in giving her pleasure. Be sure to also tell her that you enjoy watching her get excited because it excites you too, and that right now this is all about pleasing her, and she doesn't have to do anything to please you. You can tell her that you are excited thinking about entering her later, but right now you want to just concentrate on giving her pleasure. Let her know that you really enjoy seeing her excited, and that you love to please her. Tell her you like looking at her body and touching her body and seeing her excited. Also mention some aspect of her body that you really like, examples being her smooth skin, her breasts, her nipples, and how it excites you to look at her. This is all about giving her assurance that she definitely has what it takes to turn you on, so she needn't worry about that.
A good thing to do is to start with a full body massage, with her lying on her tummy.... get some scented massage oil and massage her neck and shoulders and back and work your hands down to her buttocks and knead them like you are making bread. Then down her legs all the way to her feet. Have her roll over and start with her legs and work your way up, but, be sure to avoid the genital area for now. Massage her shoulders and breasts, and then her stomach. Here is something important, always maintain touch with her. If you are squatting on your heels by her side, keep part of your leg toughing her, and also when you need more oil, keep on hand on her while you reach for it, and place one hand on her, palm up, and squirt the oil onto your palm, rather than skirting it directly on her. Finally, pour some oil on her pussy and spread her lips and massage her clitoris, just for a bit. By then she will be ready to have you put your fingers inside her.
Use one or two fingers.... you will have to be near her lower thighs, so you can reach in the right way. Put your one or two fingers inside, about 2 inches, and feel for her G spot. Your hand should be palm up at this point, giving her little strokes in a sort of come here motion. Vary your motion between long and short strokes. As you feel her G spot swell up, and you sense that she is getting ready to cum, use only one motion, either the long stokes or the short strokes, whichever seems to be working best. Keep doing this until she cums. Do NOT ask her if she came, you will know!
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