When you make contact with an interesting woman online, you want to keep the communication going. Some people have a hard time knowing what to say and how to make sure that the exchanges remain interesting.
The main goal is to find a common interest or something that you both can agree upon. This could be any kind of interest, cars, exercise, family, school, the list could go on forever. From there you just need to keep communicating with her, with the intention of keeping the affinity high between the two of you.
Here are four tips that will help you accomplish that.
1. Read her profile. Get a feel for who she is, what she likes, what she does not like. Try to find something you have in common with her or something about her that interests you and makes you curious.
Women like to talk about whatever is their passion. If you can pinpoint what she really likes and just question her about it, she will be more than happy to keep exchanging emails with you and telling you what she thinks.
If you have the same interests, that's even better. Then you can tell her your own thoughts. At that moment, you've got two people exchanging ideas about something they both like, which certainly will keep the conversation going and also will increase the affinity between the two of you.
2. Express opinions that both of you can agree with. When you begin to exchange messages with a woman, it is not a good idea to express opinions that you know she might not agree with. Since she does not know you yet, she might like you a little less for it and may not feel as strong a connection with you. For this reason, she might not reply to your messages.
For example, if you are a smoker, you might want to wait a bit before you talk to her about it. Some women are turned off by smokers. If you tell her before you have found some interests or similarities between the two of you, she might not want to pursue things further. However, if you communicate with her and she begins to like you, then she might not mind and may keep talking to you even when she finds out you are a smoker.
Take another example: If you find out from her profile that she is a vegetarian, you might want to wait a bit before you tell her how much you like your meat cooked rare.
This does not mean that your opinions cannot differ from hers, but as you begin getting to know her, you want to keep the attraction between you as positive as possible. One way to do this is to keep talking about opinions that she can agree with.
3. Be positive. Negativity turns women off, more so if you have just begun interacting with her. When you first start communicating, you want to be positive. For example, don't start to tell her how much you hate cheaters, smokers, or people who are not punctual. Even if she agrees, she might not like the negative attitude you take when expressing your opinion.
There are always ways to turn your negativity into an equivalent opinion that is positive. For example, instead of expressing how much you hate and are frustrated by cheaters, or how angry you would be if someone cheated on you, talk to her about all the positive points of having a faithful relationship.
4. Make it easy for her to reply. After you compose your message, read it again and make sure it will be easy for her to reply to you. To do this, add several questions that will encourage her to write back.
The goal when you begin to communicate with a woman online is to create an attraction. You want her to like you, and you also want to like her.
One way to do this is to find something about her that you will interest you to hear about, or something that both of you will enjoy talking about. From there, you just keep exchanging thoughts with her while keeping things positive. Be sure to make it easy for her to "talk" to you, and you are on your way to making many friends on the Internet.
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