Have recently, or not so recently, discovered that you are getting cheated on by your boyfriend or girlfriend, and you are thinking to yourself, how do I handle getting cheated on? Well fret no more, I have the answer for you. If their cheating is more than you can stand, then you have a decision to make: Turn the other cheek or take action.
1. Think about the source of your suspicion. Unless you've seen it yourself, then make sure you are right in your suspicions, or it could be you making mountains out of mole hills.
2. Make sure that jealousy and insecurity are not making you falsely accuse someone you care about.
3. Trust your instincts. If you think that your girlfriend or boyfriend is cheating on you, then ask them. If their answer is, "Oh, no honey. Of course not! How could you even ask such a thing? You know I love you and only you (kiss-kiss)," but you simply don't believe them, make sure your mistrust is based on something you witness or experience.
4. Noticing a change in your relationship or their behavior would make your suspicion reasonable.
5. Consider your physical health and emotional well-being. Could they be putting you at risk for sexually transmitted diseases? Can you deal with being one of many?
6.Think about what you would tell a sibling or a best friend to do in your situation. Is fear keeping you from following your own advice?
7. Discuss your feelings with your significant other. Tell them how their cheating is affecting you. Explain what you're looking for in this relationship.
8. Listen to what they have to say. Their response to your concerns should give you the information you need to do what is right for you.
9. Inform your your love of your decision, whether it is to forgive them and start over, have a brief separation while you figure out what to do, or part ways.
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