Saturday, October 4, 2008

Win an Ex Back for you to have a new blissful and belated making up relationship

Three powerful and time tested strategies to win an ex back and bring back happiness to your life
Steps
Take a good look at yourself: When you first fall in love with your partner, what type of person are you? In the first place, your partner was attracted to you because he/she feels good with you, and you were fulfilling his/her emotional needs. Sure enough when a partner strays, others will tell you ‘people change'. However, I want you to take a moment and think “Have I changed?” Be that person whom your partner was once deeply in love with. Your partner strays because his/her needs are not fulfilled. Think of what you can do to save the relationship. Correct bad habits and mistake, if any. Remember, you have to change in order for the external world to change.
Do not stick to your partner like glue: Practice detachment. Never show your desperation and craving no matter how bad you want him/her back. This will only make your situation worse. Make sure you don’t make it seem like you want him/her back. Be a carefree and independent person. As mentioned earlier, you must be able to give her true and unconditional love no matter what happen. At the same time, cultivate the hobbies and attitude as such that you are fully responsible for your owns’ happiness. You really do not need to depend on another person to experience happiness and peace. If you learn to cultivate this pattern, you will realize that your lover will be the one who is scared of losing you!
Do not stop them from seeing other people: If you start to complain, cry and whine that you will instantly drive him/her away to that third party! Human nature is as such that the more you stop them for having something, the more they want it! On the other hand, respect his/her choices and freedom. Do not let jealousy set in. Let them do whatever they please and let them know that you will always be there. Soon they will realize that you are a better person than your rivals as you respect them more than anyone else does.
Tips
Do not try to change, manipulate, force, threaten and restrict him/her; You must be able to give true and unconditional love to him/her no matter what happen;
Respect his/her choices;
Remember what happened to cause you two to break up and don't let it happen again. If you broke up because one of you was jealous, show him/her that things have changed and that you have more trust in him/her.
You can't really control other people, so don't try too hard Give up and face reality if it’s not working.
Indeed, life is short. Don't let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.
I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.

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